| A two-hour labor with this little one? |
Women in my
family tend to give birth quickly. Sometimes it happens so fast it has its own
medical term, precipitous labor, meaning that labor lasts three hours or less.
Precipitous
labor is mostly unheard of with a first pregnancy, but it becomes more common
with repeated pregnancies. Mothers are at greater risk of tearing during a
precipitous delivery, and babies are more at risk for fetal distress or head
injuries. Labor’s onset is often sudden and strong. The experience can be
intense, and mothers may have difficulty coping with the pain, especially
because there often isn’t time to administer pain medication.
In my family, my maternal grandmother, mother, and I all gave birth to our first
babies in eight to nine hours.
My
grandmother’s second baby was born in four hours, and her third was born in two
hours.
My mother is
the most impressive. Her second and third babies were born in two hours. One
minute she was feeling fine with no signs of imminent delivery, and two hours
later she was holding a baby in her arms.
Mom recounts
the story of her second labor, when she and my dad were getting ready to leave
for the hospital but my grandfather, a retired minister, insisted on praying
with them first. Mom is a devout Christian, but she sensed things were going to
happen fast and confessed all she could think about was getting out the door.
My mom talks
about how forceful her third birth felt, and she believes the experience left
my sister with a headache for the first day or so of life.
These were
the scenarios swirling around in my head last fall when I was expecting
daughter number two. I was moderately terrified at the prospect that I might
take after my mother and have a two-hour labor, mostly because I knew there
would be no time for pain relief. Labor with daughter number one was intense,
with one contraction rolling into the next with hardly a break between. It got
worse when the doctor ordered my water to be artificially ruptured; I later
learned this was probably the reason why things got so intense so quickly. I
got my epidural when I was six centimeters dilated. I dreaded the idea of what
lay beyond six centimeters.
I was doubly
anxious about going into labor in the middle of a weekday when my husband was
at work, teaching in a high school social studies classroom. He promised he
could leave quickly once he got the call, but I knew he couldn’t just walk out and
leave his class unattended. He’d have to wait a few minutes for someone to
relieve him.
The time it
would take for him to get out of the building, drive home, and drive us to the
hospital could easily be one hour, depending on traffic and the time of day. I could
be halfway through a two-hour labor by the time I staggered through the
hospital doors.
During my
38-week checkup, my doctor asked if I wanted an induction the following week,
so I “wouldn’t have the baby on the side of the highway.” Inductions are
considered a way to “control” labor in women with a history of fast labors.
“What are the
chances I’m going to have this baby in two hours like my mom?” I asked.
“There’s no
way to know,” she said, adding with a smile, “but other moms would love it if
you could bottle up what you’ve got and sell it.” She also advised me not to
waste time if I had the slightest inkling I might be in labor.
My husband
encouraged me to schedule the induction to put an end to my worried murmurings.
My mom discouraged potentially risky medical intervention.
I took
several days to decide. I opted not to be induced, partly because some
inductions fail to progress and require caesarean deliveries, and partly
because I was curious to see how my labor would progress on its own.
As it was, labor
started around 2:30 in the morning one day late last October. It took ten to
fifteen minutes to determine I was really in labor, a few minutes to throw on
clothes and let in our friend who was going to stay with our older daughter,
and it was 3:30 a.m. by the time we reached the hospital. By then I suspected
it was not going to be a two-hour show. But I still told the nurses who checked
me in that my labor might progress quickly and that I wanted someone at the
ready to administer an epidural.
I got the
epidural just before 5 a.m. when I was about eight to nine-ish centimeters
dilated (it’s amazing how much more manageable labor is when no one
artificially breaks your water) and delivered my daughter at precisely 7:26 a.m.
The entire thing was about five hours. It likely would have been four hours
without an epidural, because they allowed me to rest while the baby moved down.
While I was
pushing, a nurse commented, “This is how birth should be: no inductions, an
epidural, just a few hours.” It was as ideal a scenario as I could have asked
for.
Given my
family history and my own track record with labor, though, I suspect things
will go the precipitous route if I ever have a third baby. The experience will
be intense but we moms can survive anything for just an hour or two, right? At
least that’s what I’ll tell myself.
You can
contact Rachael by emailing her at Rachael@mumblingmommy.com.
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3 comments:
That is the BEST picture of Abby -- she looks like she just ran a sprint :) My deliveries were both right around 10 - 12 hours -- sort of perfect. My water broke in both instances, and the second time they gave me some inducement drugs in order to move things along (worst pain ever!!!). It was just enough time to "be ready" but not so long that I got exhausted. If you go for a third -- I'd advise some swaddling blankets in the glove compartment. :)
No kidding about the swaddling blankets, Katie.
Interestingly, the first sign that labor had started with my first daughter was my water breaking, in a big dramatic gush (thankfully I was home). But when I got to the hospital, they told me there was still an unbroken pocket of water. When they broke that, things really got crazy.
My water broke within minutes after the first contraction with daughter number two, but it was just a trickle. I was so worried that labor might start while I was in church and my water would break all over a padded pew. We sat in the back row the last week of my pregnancy!
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